Job Hunting Feels Like Being Stuck in Traffic
Job Hunting Feels Like Being Stuck in Traffic — Here's How to Get in the Fast Lane
You know that moment when you're stuck in traffic and every other lane seems to be moving faster? You switch lanes. Then, like clockwork, your new lane slows to a crawl and the one you just left speeds up.
That’s job hunting.
You keep tweaking your CV. Applying for everything. Changing strategy. Networking. Cold emailing. Watching others “move ahead” while you wonder what’s wrong with your lane.
Let’s break this down, using traffic logic.
1. Everyone’s Going Somewhere, But Not at the Same Speed
When you’re stuck in gridlock, it's tempting to assume everyone else is making progress. The truth? Most people are stuck too — they’re just quieter about it.
The same thing happens with job seekers. You only see their “I got the job!” posts — not the 47 rejections or the three months of silence. You're comparing your behind-the-scenes with someone else’s highlight reel.
Some people have industry contacts. Others are working with referrals. A few may just be lucky. But most are just like you: trying to move forward, one application at a time.
Tip: Set your own pace. Build your own goals — five applications per week, one networking call per week, or updating your CV by Friday. It doesn't have to match someone else's route.
2. The Fast Lane Isn’t Always What It Looks Like
In traffic, you’ll often notice one driver weaving across all the lanes, overtaking everyone... until you meet them again at the next light.
That’s the person on LinkedIn applying to every job that has a salary attached, firing off the same CV with no tweaks. It feels productive — but doesn’t always move the needle.
Volume might work in a high-churn market. But if you're after a decent fit, or applying in competitive sectors, spamming gets you filtered out fast.
Tip: Pick your targets. Review the job spec. Match your experience line by line. If the role asks for “process improvement experience” and you’ve done that, spell it out. Don’t make them guess.
You’re not trying to impress everyone. Just the right hiring manager.
3. Signals Matter — Ignore Them and You Stall
Drivers who miss their exit because they're distracted? That’s what it's like to send off 15 CVs and never notice they're going straight into spam folders.
You need to read the road.
Are you getting interviews? Are recruiters replying? If not, something’s off. It could be formatting, poor keywords, irrelevant experience, or even a vague CV summary.
Tip: If you've sent 30+ applications and heard nothing back, stop. Don’t send more. Fix your approach.
Ask someone to read your CV and give blunt feedback. Consider an online CV scan tool. Speak to someone working in your target industry — even a 10-minute LinkedIn chat can offer clarity.
4. GPS Only Works If You Input the Right Destination
If your goal is “any job that pays”, you’ll struggle to aim properly.
It’s like asking Google Maps to take you “somewhere good” — it doesn’t know where to start. You need coordinates.
The job market is full of distractions. You might start by applying for admin roles, then suddenly find yourself applying to marketing roles, then logistics, then entry-level remote jobs that have nothing to do with your skillset.
Tip: Write a 2–3 sentence statement for yourself that describes what kind of job you’re aiming for. For example:
“I’m looking for a remote operations assistant role in a tech or service-based company. I’ve got experience with scheduling, data entry, and process coordination.”
This doesn’t mean you can’t shift later. But without focus, you’ll waste effort and energy chasing everything and landing nothing.
5. Sometimes You Need to Pull Over and Rethink
Ever missed a turn but kept driving to avoid stopping — only to get more lost?
That’s the job seeker who’s been using the same CV for months and refuses to take a break. You might feel like stopping means giving up, but it can be the most productive thing you do.
Pausing gives you a better view of what isn’t working. Are you targeting the wrong jobs? Is your experience misaligned with what you’re chasing? Are your interview skills rusty?
Tip: Schedule a review day every 2–3 weeks. Look at your applications, track which ones got replies, and ask why. Did you tailor them more? Did someone refer you?
And don't underestimate the value of rest. Job hunting is emotionally draining. No one can function at full intensity every day without burnout creeping in.
6. Red Lights Are Temporary — But They Still Matter
It’s frustrating to hit a red light — especially when you're late. But those pauses regulate the flow, prevent crashes, and force you to stop and recalibrate.
A job rejection might feel like a block, but often it's a redirect.
It might push you to revisit a skill gap. It might reveal you weren’t actually keen on that role. Or it might be the nudge that sends you down a better road.
Tip: Rejection emails are an opportunity. Reply, thank them for their time, and politely ask for feedback. You won’t always get it, but when you do, it can highlight blind spots you never considered.
Traffic Clears Eventually
No traffic jam lasts forever. It just feels like it when you’re in it.
Same with job hunting. If you stay consistent, observant, and open to adjusting course, your exit ramp will come. And when it does, it won’t matter how long you were stuck — you’ll be moving forward again.
So next time your job search feels like standstill traffic, remember:
- Everyone’s frustrated.
- Most people are guessing.
- Your path is yours.
Put your signals on, check your mirrors, and keep going.
The lane will open.